Continuing the list of unhealthy behaviors:
8. Covering over Brokenness, Weakness, Failure
The Bible is full of examples of God using sinners, of sinners glorifying in the grace of God. Scazzero points out that David wrote a hymn about his sin with Bathsheba to be used in corporate worship.
Why do we still feel the need to wear masks and pretend we have it all together?
“We are all deeply flawed and broken. There are no exceptions.”
9. Living without Limits
Guilt for never doing enough. No boundaries. Unrealistic expectations.
“Few Christians make the connection between love of self and love of others. Sadly, many believe that taking care of themselves is a sin, a “psychologizing” of the gospel taken from our self-centered culture. I believed that myself for years.”
Jesus didn’t heal every sick person. He didn’t feed every beggar. Why do we feel we have to fix and save every single person to the neglect of our selves.
10. Judging Other People’s Spiritual Journey
“If you are occupied with your own faults, you have no time to see those of your neighbor.”
“We judge the Presbyterians for being too structure. We judge the Pentecostals for lacking structure. We judge Episcopalians for their candles and their written prayers. We judge Roman Catholics for their view of the Lord’s Supper and Orthodox Christians from the eastern part of the world for their strange culture and love of icons.
“By failing to let others be themselves before God and move at their own pace, we inevitably project onto them our own discomfort with their choice to live life differently than we do”
Are we commanded to teach and correct? Sure!
Do you know people churches who are only and constantly correcting, rebuking, fixing other people and churches? Yes. And how do we feel about them? Okay, you say feelings shouldn’t matter. How EFFECTIVE are they in helping people grow and change??